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The Second Shift: What Fatherhood Taught Me About My Wife’s Day
Becoming a dad has changed the way I see time, responsibility, and presence. Dad guilt is something I didn’t expect, especially when I realised I get to choose when I hold my daughter, while my wife carries the constant rhythm of caring for her throughout the day. Balancing work, fatherhood, and supporting my family has been a journey of understanding what it really means to show up.
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You Can’t Really Prepare for a Newborn
I’ve spent years building systems, products, and ideas in tech. Fatherhood is the first thing that doesn’t behave like a system you can optimise. This is a reflection on becoming a dad, balancing building things with raising a newborn, and learning that presence matters more than productivity.
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Welcome to the Tech Dad Journal
Why I started writing anonymously about fatherhood and a career in tech — and what you can expect to find here.
